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Paromita's avatar

It’s so true. Love the piece. I do also find it differs by city. Like in mumbai I find it a lot less than when I lived in Lucknow. But that comment about madam is incharge from the husband or other male with me, I don’t know it fills me with a boiling rage. Like there is a wink wink nudge nudge acknowledgment of the hysterical woman who needs to be humoured and this giving charge is sanctioned by the two men. May just be me. Don’t know how others feel.

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Aparna Sethuraman's avatar

We have experienced this so often..electricians assuming we won't understand what is being said and wanting to address the man of the house..the funny thing is my dad used to hate dealing with them and would prefer to enjoy his nap while we took care of the task..I even remembering telling one of these guys that I am the one who knows the problem and not sahab!!

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