So , we stay away from in laws place due to work. Now , whenever we go home , I have to visit Mayakaa and sasural both and ensure that i stayed more in sasural. I have taken leaves to chill. But now I have this constant mental stress while staying at sasural. Husband can have a raja treatment since he has come after long break. Make sens…
So , we stay away from in laws place due to work. Now , whenever we go home , I have to visit Mayakaa and sasural both and ensure that i stayed more in sasural. I have taken leaves to chill. But now I have this constant mental stress while staying at sasural. Husband can have a raja treatment since he has come after long break. Make sense. But I have this urgency to help in home to my inlaws. When I spoke to my mom , she mentions this is something you have to do. This is part and parcel.
Now if I cook some snack for myself , I have to cook for everybody else , irrespective of the fact that they have the habit of taking just two meals a day. this cooking of 10 minutes extend to 25 minutes.
Then some special commentaries.
However , my unmarried brother in law doing PHD in astrophysics cooks for his snack time , he has to do it for himself.
On a weekend , both brothers can watch movie all day long , but their mother will wash their underwear(mind you one is married , other is finding a girl). And ask me to help her in washing clothes, including the underwear.
If I deny just to wash the underwear, she will ostracize me in various ways.
Can my brother inlaw wash my bra if not underwear
Who to be blamed ?
They have done a great work since both of them studied in top notch university.
Dude , it is luck , hardwork , destiny , intellectual capabilities given by god , but that is not the only qualification required for a marriage.
yes, but he is raja beta, he is empathetic to everyone but me . option is to live with it. I have been into emotional turbulence because of these situations which is solely coming from upbringing of these raja betas . To my own mother , it is normal and petty issue. adopt "besharmi", get into thick skin.focus on career , prepping myself with many of these upcoming episodes
But thanks for your all posts and comment. It feels like having therapy and peace.
So , we stay away from in laws place due to work. Now , whenever we go home , I have to visit Mayakaa and sasural both and ensure that i stayed more in sasural. I have taken leaves to chill. But now I have this constant mental stress while staying at sasural. Husband can have a raja treatment since he has come after long break. Make sense. But I have this urgency to help in home to my inlaws. When I spoke to my mom , she mentions this is something you have to do. This is part and parcel.
Now if I cook some snack for myself , I have to cook for everybody else , irrespective of the fact that they have the habit of taking just two meals a day. this cooking of 10 minutes extend to 25 minutes.
Then some special commentaries.
However , my unmarried brother in law doing PHD in astrophysics cooks for his snack time , he has to do it for himself.
On a weekend , both brothers can watch movie all day long , but their mother will wash their underwear(mind you one is married , other is finding a girl). And ask me to help her in washing clothes, including the underwear.
If I deny just to wash the underwear, she will ostracize me in various ways.
Can my brother inlaw wash my bra if not underwear
Who to be blamed ?
They have done a great work since both of them studied in top notch university.
Dude , it is luck , hardwork , destiny , intellectual capabilities given by god , but that is not the only qualification required for a marriage.
This is terrible.
Short answer to who to blame: Your husband.
If he doesn't stand up to his family and protect you from their abuse, you must not blame the family. His cowardice/apathy is the real problem.
yes, but he is raja beta, he is empathetic to everyone but me . option is to live with it. I have been into emotional turbulence because of these situations which is solely coming from upbringing of these raja betas . To my own mother , it is normal and petty issue. adopt "besharmi", get into thick skin.focus on career , prepping myself with many of these upcoming episodes
But thanks for your all posts and comment. It feels like having therapy and peace.
I love thick-skinned, besharam women - every woman should be those things! ❤️